Thursday, August 11, 2005

Focus on the Family's Focus on Your Child

I wasn't planning on posting anything today, seeing how my life was rather uneventful (or more truthfully had nothing that I wanted to share). But I found this article on the web and it is one of the most bs/disturbing stories I have every read. My comments are in bloody red.

Helping Boys Become Men, and Girls Become Women

Is My Child Becoming Homosexual?

Before puberty, children aren’t normally heterosexual or homosexual. They’re definitely gender conscious. But young children are not sexual beings yet — unless something sexual in nature has interrupted their developmental phases. ok, I am open to the idea that it is a possibility.

Still, it’s not uncommon for children to experience gender confusion during the elementary school years. Dr. Joseph Nicolosi reports, “In one study of 60 effeminate boys ages 4 to 11, 98 percent of them engaged in cross-dressing, and 83 percent said they wished they had been born a girl.” Ok. But most women at one point or another wanted to be a guy, because of the social inequality that women have to face. Hey, being a man isn't bad considering that I can automatically earn 30% more money. I am sure plenty of men during the Vietnam war and male soliders in Iraq wished they were born a woman.

Evidences of gender confusion or doubt in boys ages 5 to 11 may include:

1. A strong feeling that they are “different” from other boys. Well, if you are gay already, you are different.

2. A tendency to cry easily, be less athletic, and dislike the roughhousing that other boys enjoy. Hmm.... if I am a gay man, would I mind roughhousing with other men in an intimate, yet masculine environment.... Oh and all of those gay athletes just haven't realized that they are straight. Even better, if it is a inherent and natural charateristic of "straight" men to engage in violence, then we are all doomed.

3. A persistent preference to play female roles in make-believe play. Whatever. See note above.

4. A strong preference to spend time in the company of girls and participate in their games and other pastimes. Again, see note above.

5. A susceptibility to be bullied by other boys, who may tease them unmercifully and call them “queer,” “fag” and “gay.” Well, this make sense. In fact, to make sure that your boy grows up "straight", you should tease him and call him a "heterosexual," "dick" ... etc.

6. A tendency to walk, talk, dress and even “think” effeminately. So there is really no difference between being homosexual and metrosexual. So all pretty boys with good taste and good hygiene, stop denying your sexuality and admit that you are gay.

7. A repeatedly stated desire to be — or insistence that he is — a girl. Ok. I can agree that this is gender confusion, but what's the problem here.

If your child is experiencing several signs of gender confusion, professional help is available. It’s best to seek that help before your child reaches puberty.

“By the time the adolescent hormones kick in during early adolescence, a full-blown gender identity crisis threatens to overwhelm the teenager,” warns psychologist Dr. James Dobson. To compound the problem, many of these teens experience “great waves of guilt accompanied by secret fears of divine retribution.” You know something lack credibility when the website constantly cite its creator and owner.

If your child has already reached puberty, change is difficult, but it’s not too late.

This is too crazy. The stupidity of mankind.

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